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03-29-2014 07:01 PM |
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Originally Posted by Por_sha911
(Post 7988236)
A loudmouth is in a restaurant and insulting you. You should leave the restaurant and go eat someplace else because he may start a fight.
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No, you should tell the manager. The manager can ask the guy to chill or leave. It's not my job to become the restaurant police.
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Originally Posted by Por_sha911
(Post 7988335)
Agreed that there are some hills not worth dying for but I do think we need to stand up to bullies.
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in this case, by doing what? having a control issue and making the guy play by your rules?
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The argument that you should call the restaurant manager is not valid. A manager is not going to be able to control an asshat that is making a show.
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Then they aren't much of a manager. But you are going to be able to stop an asshat from being an asshat? What are you going to do?
"Please be more quiet and respectful. I have my wife here and you're being offensive."
"Get Stuffed"
"OK, please come outside so I can pummel your ass into next week."
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And the restaurant analogy isn't the same. In the original situation, your dealing with someone in a car that is irresponsible and unreasonable who feels empowered because they are safe in a vehicle. Do you really want to screw with a nutjob in a 5000# projectile? The girl felt safe in her vehicle, so she felt like she could impose her will on the little man which just fanned the flames.
Basically it was like her poking a lion with a pointy stick and then sending the lion out into a room with the general public. In this case it was just lucky that the guy didn't hurt anyone else. She should have taken the high ground and let this guy go on about his way. Who says that she gets to decide what's reasonable for anyone else that she chooses?
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