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Learning to fix things was an integral part of my youth and one of the things I did for fun. I can only compare this to Gen-Xers and 'digital natives' whose childhood recreation was likely closer to video gaming than gapping spark plugs. Less (or at least different kind of) field experience. Probably also has something to do with which values and skills we hold in high regard and therefore want to emulate. Lots of young adult males now have no interest in -- and little regard for -- many of the 'man skills' offered in this thread. But I wanted to be just like my dad and my brother, both highly mechanically skilled and very smart. Gratuitous pic of me working on my bike with my brother working on his . . . http://forums.pelicanparts.com/uploa...1413404299.jpg |
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Ahh, remembering back to those men and women who schooled us in ways we didn't expect!:) |
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Now GET OFF MY LAWN!!! ps: Just want to be clear....this board by it's very nature attracts both young and old that aren't typical of doing the stuff I/we're ranting about...and that's a GOOD thing :) |
My now 25 y/o son has rebuilt cars, made an AR-15 from parts that he had to machine. At 13 he helped me put in a garage door opener and needed zero direction from me on the tasks that he was given. On the college end of things, he's working on it.
He's also an Eagle Scout, but I get some credit for putting my toe up his butt to stick with it. |
A guy I work with has been doing structured database programming in excel to create our pay requisitions. They're insane but amazing from a geek pron standpoint. Cash flow curves, fiscal year expenditure projections, GMP summary auto-population and automatic cross-checking with previous payments to ensure everything's accounted for with no "double dipping". It's all there. Crazy good. He's retiring in two years though - I've told him he should come back as a consultant for 2x the salary but I think he wants to get out of the USA entirely (did I mention he was smart?)
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Think about how stupid the average person is- then think about the fact that half of the population is dumber than that...
I'm thinking that probably everyone posting in this thread is smarter than average, and most by a lot. However, cynicism may pass for wisdom, but in reality, it is the furthest thing from it. Anyone can make crass critical observations, and you don't really have to be very smart to utilize empirical observation to put down an entire generation. It doesn't make it accurate, and it doesn't make us better than. And we really have no idea what it is like to grow up today. Consider that the city mouse and the country mouse have two different skill sets. And that story is almost 3000 years old. Socrates said that the youth of today were ruining his country 2500 years ago. Ever hand your phone to a 12 YO and have him fix your app in less than a minute ? Cut them some slack. IMO, we are the most arrogant and messed up generation of our era, and we often do things on a massive scale with no idea about how the world will be effected. And many of us will deny that to their dying breath. Yeah, stupid kids. You're older, You are smarter. YOU are supposed to know better. You. Not the kids... In times of great need, SOME will rise to the calling. Some will concentrate on making a killing, and some will just survive, or die trying. It has always been so. We stand on the shoulders of the Great, and complain about the view. And school taxes. We complain about those too. Teach kids about values, teach kids to think for themselves, and they will figure it out. The only problem we have today is that you really have to have the memories of a 100 YO to have seen all the changes we are now experiencing, and have the experience to understand where it might be taking us. Most will still lack the courage and the vision. BUT IT'S THOSE STUPID KIDS !!!! |
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Tonight I took the opportunity to show my son how to make a template, transfer it to wood and cut it on the table saw. I needed to make a new floor for a tool chest that my neighbor gave me today.
He feigned interest but hopefully he will be able to help on bigger projects in the future based on the basics. Measure 12 times, cut once. A woodworker I am not but the piece fits and works as intended.:D |
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Why my 18 year old brother, who is a gifted welder...just walked out of a high school classroom and into a career at $64k, full benefits, profit sharing, vaca/sick time, and all the overtime available anyone would want. ...and... Why my sister-in-law spent $325k of daddy's money to get a Master's in Social Work...and is now a bar tender... |
My dad was a watch maker by trade ( Germany ) and a machinist ( self taught ) when he came to the states. My older brother and I were taught from an early age to be DIYers regardless of what the task was. I cherish that hands on training we were taught. I took various shop classes in high school to gain additional knowledge. I am not a tradesman for my occupation but I enjoy doing things myself. When my two boys came along I tried to instill that same basic knowledge/work ethic. My oldest is an avid DIYer my youngest can barely add oil to his car. The youngest has zero interest in the DIY philosophy but does have a good work ethic. My boys are just different from each other but that's OK. Love them the same. Not everyone has the knack/desire to be hands on and I don't think that has changed over the years. Heck I knew guys in H.S. that couldn't pump their own gas that's why they used full service pumps !
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i just found out that the old retired guy that school me on all things civil eng, did not graduate from college..only a few JC classes. he is self taught.
he took the EIT..passed..then because of his age and the rules back then..he qualified for the PE by work experience (not sure if this is an option anymore) and passed!! he is a PE, without a degree!! he wants to go back to college, but i think he would know more than most professors. gah.. it was humbling. |
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I wouldn't discredit her Master's degree, that took a lot of work. The sad part is that after all that work, schooling, and money, she does not have a rewarding position. That type of a program is pushed throughout school. Then reality kicks in and you can't find a job, and you wonder why your whole life all you heard was "work hard in school". I have a job, because I'm fortunate, many of my peers are not, despite lots and lots of hard work, and "daddy's money". It's also not her fault that a Master's in social work costs a whopping 325k, blame the people who run the show and jack up the prices for people without jobs because they want daddy's money. When I was in highschool at 14 - 17 ish and university at 18 - 22, for most of those years, what the hell did I know about which programs will actually land me a job? The universities and high schools rant and rave about getting a degree and working hard in school, but don't really inform you as to what programs yield employment. |
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We are so caught up on the whole hands-on and DIY, while I am one myself, my father could not tighten up a faucet if it leaked. He did fine jewelry work and did nothing around the house, I did all that when i old enough because I was curious and it was fun. He instilled good work ethics and taught us how to problem solve should the problem arise and take charge of our situations. The basic survival and employable skills. They also make sure we look people in the eye and give a firm hand shake since my sister an I were about 3 days old. My wife and I are trying to do the same thing to our boys. Dang, it is not easy. I don't know how they did all this while worked many hours running a business and kept things together.
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There is a lot of this thread that is ironic - complaining about information technology, on the internet, on a site known for the information passed between and among users to help them DIY their German cars. :) In that vein, I am very thankful that PP is here, so I have a place on the internet to look up the tricks on doing a project on my car. There is no way I could even be a checkbook mechanic here - there is nobody qualified to work on my car within 100 miles.
I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. I grew up on a farm, and Dad taught both my brother and I to fix and make do. I screwed up the "fix" part plenty of times, and Dad never hesitated to loudly announce his displeasure at having to fix my mistakes. My welding still looks like home-made sin, but on farm implements, you don't get any prizes for how great it looks. If the weld does the job, how it looks is not important. Still, I look at the welds on my bicycles and marvel at how well skilled hands can do that kind of work. It moves into the realm of art, IMO. I think there are several things going wrong in the schools that discourage the sort of schooling some of us had. First, there is the idea that schools are about the Three Rs, and that's it. Guess what, when it comes time to cut something from the budget, what gets cut? Not math. Not English courses. Not science courses. Shop. Art. Music. All that stuff gets the axe. While my brother and I were "lucky" to have lived in a shop class (a farm is a full-time shop class, I'll tell you what), our schools had metal shop, wood shop and auto shop. And drafting, and music and art (painting and ceramics). We had tons of opportunity to explore all of our talents. Now, my high school has closed all the shop classes, and those building have been put to use as additional classrooms. In addition to focusing on the Three Rs, schools have become less process-oriented and more goal-oriented. Graduation rates and standardized tests and performance evaluations - if schooling were a business, these metrics for evaluation might make sense. But learning is a not inherently goal-based. Education is a process. We learn a process, then adapt it to the situation. If all you learn is to seek a goal, then any wrinkle in the process prevents the goal. I chuckle a little at the disdain for information devices. I took German in high school. Four years. At first, it was to fulfill a requirement, then I found I liked the structure of the language. THEN I found that a lot of the original organic chemistry research articles were in German. That propelled me to my fourth year of German, and one in college. Looking up those original paper articles in the stacks of college libraries was VERY time-consuming, and many of the articles I needed were not available. I was, however, quite popular in my organic chemistry class. I was the only one who could freely translate the text into English. Boy, but looking up the words I didn't know in my German-English dictionary was a serious chore as well. All that time wasted - while the arts guys were chasing tail, I was in the dusty stacks reading German... That's why I like the internet. Looking up that stuff is so much easier now. Not having to pore through volume after volume of paper material to find the reaction diagram I need? And have it translated into English? I don't see the value in making any chemistry student play with card catalogs and paper articles in a foreign language. I don't think I benefited much from the experience, except that I got to be close to a particular organic chemistry student that caught my eye. She might have been interested in German text, but upon reflection, I don't think so. :) In any case, some of the information revolution has been an absolute boon to those of us that have to wade through thousands of pages of text a year. Not spending it in the windowless basement of a university library means more time to actually do work. I don't know the answer to how to make public schools teach more process and less toward goals. That would require that those who made the schools go that way in the first place decide they were wrong to do it that way. GLWT. |
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I understand how devices can be a crutch. For some kids, without their smart device, they would not know anything. In the case of a very powerful solar storm, these folks would have zero value, and just be mouths to feed. Those of us who grew up on paper and taking stuff apart to figure out how it worked? We will be gods among men! :) |
One of the thing I like to do with my trainees in fire training is to invoke Murphy's Law when possible. Because that's reality. We have a fantastic device called a TIC (Thermal Imaging Camera). lets you see victims, heat, fire,tin the dark and through smoke. Probably one of the greatest tools ever to be introduced into the fire service.
While I have them do a search in a smoke filled building, ( especially if they purposely lose contact with a wall) I'll conveniently rip the camera out of their hands or reach down and pop open the battery cover so it falls out. I want to see how they react. I want to see if they go back to the basics, and continue the search manually or depending on the situation, get themselves out of the structure. Or if they freak out and panic. Of course most of the ones that panic, I immediately "kill them". When we get outside, they are usually pissed at me that I did that. But I not so nicely explain to them that they depended on and placed their lives on a piece of electronics that has the possibility to malfunction. Instead of relying on their brain and the simple proven basics that they were taught. |
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My wife and I bought our farm pretty much because we wanted to raise our kids in the environment we were both raised in. That, and we were pretty much "figure it out on your own" (within limits) parents. I can tell you what works, even with my Daughter who is a great problem solver: I made her identify every fluid reservoir under the hood of her car, check oil and txmsn fluid, then change a tire; not pretend to change a tire: change it, before I let her solo in her car. She also had to help with the oil/filter/air filter changes. I do all the routine maintenance on our cars so it is best she helped. She had a choice, a very easy one in my opinion. She was always ready to help. |
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