Arggh! Damage to my son's car this am...how would you guys handle this?

[2porscheguy]

OK, time for my rant and I'll apologize in advance for how long this post is!

Because we live on an acreage, our garbage man is kind enough to drive in and park next to our garage to pick up the trash. And so he did as usual this morning at 8am. I'm in our living room observing him when I see my son dash out to the garage and get into his car. He's on his way to univ classes. I'm thinking I should just run out there and tell him to be careful as the G truck is in the driveway but I figured he'd see him before backing up. WELL, SURE ENOUGH.....BAMM!......PHHACKKK!!! He comes running back in, obviously upset.

Meanwhile my wife has now heard about this and is there with us asking what the commotion is all about. I can't hold back and so I tear a strip out of him. She says..."Ok, it's not his fault. He didn't know he was there!" "WHAT? It's 110% his fault! What is the first thing you should do before backing up? What if the guy was standing there? What if it was another person or child or Bodi (our dog)?". OK, so I'm just pissed while my wife is consoling our son, who is near tears at this point.

So luckily he hit the G truck on his front right hub with no damage...the gentleman waves it off and apologizes for "being a little late this time". I shake his hand and apologize on my son's behalf and he drives off.

Meanwhile:



I figure that these modern bumpers just pop off in a low impact collision. I can see that there are some plastic brackets that have broken so my thought is to try and order the brackets and attempt a home repair.

So how would this be handled in your household? My son is 18 and in his first year at univ with no significant savings. As we live out of town, taking transit to classes is not an option for him. He needs a vehicle. The vehicle is a 2005 Mazda 3 2.3L with just over 100K Km on the clock.

(a) "Son, you're on your own here!"

(b) "I can probably fix it for you son but it'll look like a home repair. When you get a summer job you can have it repaired at the Mazda dealership on your dime". (aprox $1000, I figure)

(c) "Alex, don't be such a cheap bastard! Have it fixed and suck it up. He's your son!" (I can guarantee that this is what my wife will insist on!)

(d) As per (c) but "charge him later" or have him pay it back month to month, say $100 per month until paid off.

I'll be leaning to (b) with further discussion with him to be held this evening.

Gentlemen and ladies of PPOT...what say youze guyz?

OK, RANT OVER!!!

[RANDY P]

"D"take the hit and eat it

- find a matching bumper at the scrappers, and put it on.. Better than a big collision that many times happens when you are a kid. Just a rookie mistake. You got off lucky.

rjp

[1975porsche]

Been there done it daughter had the whole side of the car taking off repaired and kept the peace in the family

[biosurfer1]

B) Fix it as best you can...if he doesn't like it, he's more than welcome to pay to have it done professionally.

[Seahawk]

I went through this when I was near your son's age (I was a senior in HS), only I had a minor accident in my Dad's truck. My parents opted for d and then added an e: I would pay the difference in the insurance premium due to the accident. I paid for everything.

Has to be that way.

[JavaBrewer]

I left my car in the driveway a couple years ago and my wife backed into it from the garage. Totally my fault apparently...

Young drivers (and my wife) make these kinds of mistakes. I made many similar mistakes at 18 as well. My son, who will be 18 this month, backed into a P/U in the Vons parking lot. Our insurance paid the guys claim (bogus but another topic) and I bought a used tail light that he paid for in sweat equity and he helped install it.

So I guess D).

[gshase]

Fix it together A dad son bonding time.

[stomachmonkey]

Any of the above depending on how much of a dumbass my kid has been about other things.

Most likely B.

[911boost]

B, work on it together and have him help.

It is his fault, one always needs to look behind them.

Wait, your son gets a garage space? My car was on the curb.

[Rick Lee]

I had a similar accident when I was 17 in my gorgeous BMW 2002 roundie. It sat in the shop's yard until I had earned enough money as a furniture mover that summer to pay for the repair. Sure was fun earning that money with no car to get to/from work. My folks were really hard on me about it too, but nothing they said was as bad as not having that awesome car.

Then...... my dad did exactly this below to my car when it was back home in the driveway.

Originally Posted by JavaBrewer

I left my car in the driveway a couple years ago and my wife backed into it from the garage. Totally my fault apparently...

By then it was looking rough, so we totaled it out on his insurance, home repaired it and I took the money and had a great European vacation before I started college and didn't need the car anymore. When life hands you lemons...

[Ayles]

Recently did something like to this to my Xterra. New front shell and fender liner, light paintwork was $800 out the door.

I'd see if my son and I could fix it. If it was out of capabilities you'd have to get it repaired, however the last place I would look for estimates is the dealership. Lots of guys out there doing this type of body work in home shops. I'd be surprised if there wasn't someone in your local PCA or other car club that could help with installation and paint on a new bumper shell.

[Rot 911]

We were all young and dumb at one time. Do the cheap fix so he can get to school.

[Nostril Cheese]

Option B or D.

Bumper covers are pretty easy to replace. getting it painted might cost around $500 or so. Although it looks like you could just zip a few tek screws through that cover and get it back on.

[Laneco]

You screw your car up, you fix your car. We've been through this with BOTH kids. Something like this is NOT worth reporting to the insurance company and with a 10 year old car - 100K on the clock, not really worth a lot of out-of-pocket cash either.

If the skin is OK/cosmetically damaged and it's just the clips that are broken, buy them and reuse the skin. It's not hard to do, just a bit fiddly.

If the skin is torn through at the attachment points, get a matching rear bumper skin and install it. The rear bumper is cheap because its usually the front one that gets taken out in an accident.

It's an accident and a rather silly one at that. Between the repair, the scare, and the butt-pealing you gave him, he'll be more careful in the future. Especially after laying on the frozen winter ground fixing his car. (been there...done that).

angela

[GH85Carrera]

Choice F.

Tape the tag to the back and let him drive it as is until he can afford to fix it. The reality of responsibility.

If he wants it fixed faster let give him a hand finding a salvage bumper and fitting that.

[on2wheels52]

krikey, just zip tie the thing back on.
Make the punishment fit the crime.
Jim

[Baz]

I think it looks BETTER without that piece that fell off. Think Road Warrior.....you could be a trend setter in your neighborhood!

Just duck tape the license plate to the rear hatch and you're all set.

You're welcome!

[masraum]

Originally Posted by GH85Carrera

Choice F.

Tape the tag to the back and let him drive it as is until he can afford to fix it. The reality of responsibility.

If he wants it fixed faster let give him a hand finding a salvage bumper and fitting that.

a, b (with his help) or f

It's just the bumper. It's not like the car isn't drivable like that assuming you can get the plate attached some how.

[2porscheguy]

Originally Posted by Rot 911

We were all young and dumb at one time.

Who? Me?....never!

[McLovin]

(e) Leave it as it, "very JDM!"