I bartended in topless bars for about 5 years. As a fellow employee things are different than as a customer, and being there when they come in is sweats and a T-shirt with no make-up, most are just ordinary girls. They usually have a lot of baggage. I also found it sad and depressing. Yeah, I love to see hot nearly naked women, but then getting to know them and their problems really sucked. Yeah, most end up doing drugs if they don't start out that way. Most don't really like what they are doing, but it's a vicious circle that they can't get out of because there are aspects of it that make them feel superficially, temporarily good. Then later, they feel bad and go back to feel good again. I'm really glad I didnt' spend more time in that environment, but it was educational.

I'll let the link provide the very lengthy details, but in this famous Seattle area case, the student made a very classic statement on the local news one night. He said:

You know, looking back, I really didn't feel like a VICTIM.....

Classic line.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mary_Kay_Letourneau

Instead of getting hung up on the problem, let's find a solution!

https://www.yahoo.com/news/teacher-kills-herself-day-being-175901483.html

THis seemed like an OK thread to bump after YT threw these two older (7-8 yo) videos at me.

One teacher getting double-teamed by a couple of football players. I believe in this case, the boys were at the age of legal consent, but the problem is that she was a teacher and they were students which is illegal.

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And here is two female teachers that had the other kind of threesome with another student that was of the age of legal consent, but again, still illegal because of the teacher/student thing.
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In all the years I went to school, in 11 different schools, I never one had a teacher that was even the slightest bit attractive. I think my schools hired only ugly old ladies or men.

I feel gypped!

My company seems to reward this kind of behavior. Have a kid with someone who works for you and they reward both parties. They aren't a couple, but they keep getting transferred together from location to location and are ridiculously overpaid for their bad work/decisions.

I get the double-standard, I really do.

But when I was in high school, if the opportunity to be victimized in this way by a very attractive, young (and I suppose I should add, female) teacher had arisen ... well, victimize away.

In the real world of almost all teenage boys, though, I wouldn't have been a victim at all. I'd have been a hero.

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I'll say. The title of the videos is "Teachers have threesome," but the videos are just news stories.

Dear Penthouse Letters.....

They made ME a sammich :)!

Absolutely, I'd have been willing then, and would still be willing now, to be victimized by 23yo and 32yo attractive HS English teachers. My current self would risk the "emotional damage" that could have resulted. As a matter of fact, I'd have gone back for seconds and thirds and ... to research the damage as closely as possible.
LOL
ROFLMAO!

Do we have contact information for these two? For follow-up questions.

sign me up

I think there are two ways that this can impact people, one is to have a hard time with physical intimacy as many might expect, but the other way is for them to end up promiscuous. Sex is either power or maybe a way to feel loved or desired.

probably a safe bet. Whatever. I'm equal opportunity

I bartended in topless clubs for almost five years. It was very sad. Most are relatively normal, girl next door, sister, whatever. All of them have issues, some much worse than others.