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The guy who did this is living a fraudulent life and he will be repaid in kind - with a life based upon falsehoods. You are not - and will be repaid in kind - in the long run we get the life we choose. Don't second guess the decision you made before you were aware it was based upon fraudulent information. You made the right choice, an admirable choice then, and you've made the right choice now. It's not your problem. It's his. Especially now that everyone knows about it. I've followed your posts and threads here for awhile now and learned a lot - even from this one.
OTOH, Scylla is a nymph in Greek mythology who used falsehoods to draw sailors to their death in a whirlpool .... I guess we should have known. |
Kurt
Feel very sorry for this type of people.One day they'll get theirs Some Guys will take advantage of any situation to make an extra buck. Down here a friend and I are restoring a 1982 911 Targa SC. . We found a friend that had four fush's.., two for the front and two for the rear w/Eagle tires like new for only $700.00 for the four. Thaths the kind of consideration we have with each other..! Vic |
Kurt,
Hard to understand why bad things always happens to good people :confused: Any way i think Wayne should make it a sticky in parts section stating " Be cautious in your dealings with scylla,the flipper man " Btw i am a firm believer of " What goes around comes around " and if i was you my blood would be boiling too but some times we all have to suck up things in life that we don't want to,o well . Forgot to mention,it was nice talking to you & i will keep you posted about the other issue. |
Illegal? no. Unethical? yes. Even though you say that the money isn't the issue, it really wouldn't be even mentioned if you sold the tires for what he's gotten for them. The issue here is that scylla beat you up on the price and then made a profit. They do it at the auto sales lot and Stock Market every day. The fact that he played you with being a Pelican is low but not surprising. Final thought: Galatians 6:7 says "Don’t be misled: No one makes a fool of God. What a person plants, he will harvest. The person who plants selfishness, ignoring the needs of others—ignoring God!—harvests a crop of weeds. All he’ll have to show for his life is weeds!" (The Message Bible) We say "goes around, comes around"
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Why feel bad? You are the better man. Integrity is it's own reward. Feel proud.
If you want to change the world, take the amount of the price difference and send it to a Tsunami relief effort. Then post it here. Maybe he will read about it and do the same. |
Welcome to the wild and wooly world of free market capitalism.
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Kurt,
The golden rule was not being followed by this buyer, that is for sure. Hopefully the resulting karmic energy will send this jacka__ a message. I'm with you, people who are enthusiasts get "a break". I just had a new, unknown to me pelicanite over last weekend, I loaned him about $500 in special 911 engine building tools. No deposit or other legal wrangling. Unlike the wheel flipper, he was a nice guy and I don't have the slightest worry that my tools won't come back home after he finishes his engine job. I know that there are (fill in expletive of your choice) people out there, and I do look for them in my dealings. But I also to give the benefit of the doubt first. You can sleep easy knowing that your heart is pure. And he will likely get his in the end. Cheers, Chris P.S. Since sushineav suggested making a Tsunami donation, may I suggest http://www.mercycorp.org? My children are doing a fundraiser for them right now http://OperationChildren.hope4peace.com |
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Anyway, this business with the wheels; I agree it's unethical, but not illegal. I've committed his screenname to long term memory and will never do business with him. Maybe I'll check his profile for his real name. |
Yes I would be upset too,
Can you send me some more info on those great rims you have on the White 911/turbo Thanks Derek |
Kurt:
Just take solice in the fact that this person is a wretched, pathetic little guy who has to either build up his little ego by doing deals like this or whose life is on such a low productive level he actually needs the $200. |
Kurt, don't get all work up over it. The additional stress you don't need. I have been screw many many times trying to be a nice guy. Just look at it this way, You have a few bucks and you just want to lend a helping hand. Don't let this change you. We have to continue to believe that there are still many good prople out there.
Jeff |
whattajerk!....
Kurt,
I guess this is a case of "First time shame on him, second time shame on You!" Anyway thanks for posting this "issue" on the BB. At least now other Pelicanites will know to watch out for this jerk. He will probably change his login name and work under another alias. Maybe someone will scam him on Ebay and help to adjust the "univerisal kharma". In fact, maybe the other BB members could set up a "sting" on the guy to make him realize that he is not welcome here! Just a thought. Fred Cook '80 911SC coupe |
Tom Dance?
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Kurt...good news travels fast, bad news even faster. I'm sorry you had a nasty experience, as you know, I'm relatively new to this stuff, I must say I've been luck to date but I cringe at the prospect of having it eventually happen to me. Even though it costs me $$, I insist on having a few telephone conversations with whomever responds to my posts, I let my intuition take over from there. No doubt I'll have a nasty experience if I keep buying and selling electronically...now thanks to you, I know of someone that I will avoid. Good luck, keep your spirits up and flip the page...
Fred C. |
Kurt, you said he came over to your house right? Search the area he was in looking for trace evidence such as hair fibers. Gather a few up and make a little voodoo doll and stick a pin in it everyday. Maybe twist his head around like the exorcist or something. Ha ha ha
I am a firm believer in "what comes around goes around" I have found the members of this board extremely sociable and honest. I am proud to be a member and would happily do business with the majority. A little over a year ago, my trusty 83SC was a no-start. I posted on this board and SammyG came over the day after Thanksgiving with a toolbox and fixed my car. He accepted no money and would not even let me buy him breakfast. His reply was, "that's just what we do for each other." That is the spirit of this board. David |
I'm in the "Free Market" crowd. It sounds like you've never negotiating anything in Chinatown, have you??? He did nothing more dishonest then playing "hardball".
First off -- the guy sounds like a jerk. No disagreement there. Did he do anything wrong? No. Did he do anything fraudulent? No -- When a buyer says what their intentions are for the item being sold during a negotiation -- it has no bearing on the deal. They are strictly intentions and it's fully within the buyers rights to change his mind after he has paid the full amount. Personally, I enjoy doing a win-win deal with fellow Pelican heads or racers. But as soon as I get of whiff of something like this buyers "hard ball" negotiating tactics -- the gloves come off. If I don't like the way the guy is dealing with me, I have no qualms about walking away and say "If you think that these wheels are worth only $350, you're welcome to buy them somewhere else for that price..." and let it go at that. At this point, the last thing that I'd let this guy do to to cause you to waste more days being angry about it. Life it too short to waste a lot of time being pi$$ed off. Chaulk it up to experience and move on. PS: Personally I've spent most of my life being a poor negotiator. I was lucky enough to take some classes during my MBA on Negotiations as well as Gaming Theory (which is the empirical study of negotiations"). A good rule of thumb to keep in mind (backed up by studies) is that more then half of the negotiations wind up at the half-way point between the opening positions of the two parties. If you don't feel that you're there, don't take the deal. |
Buying cheap and flipping for a profit is standard fare for swap-meets, etc. No big deal.
The part that stings is the buyer took advantage of the pelican brotherhood angle to get his deal. Not cool. |
Let me help you feel better about your situation.
About three years ago I cleaned out my garage due to impending unemployment. I took a truckload of old 911 stuff to a local swapmeet. In this "stuff" was a set of deep 6x15s. I sold them to "a fellow enthusiast" who looked like he could use a break for $100. FOR THE PAIR. Later on that day the guy was run off by the organizer because he was a competitor in the used parts business. Pissed? You bet. Now I only give good deals to folks I am at least aquainted with. |
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Take a pic of some fuchs and put them up on ebay. Price them cheap.When he comes to buy or makes an offer to end your auction early and he will,report him to ebay for trying to buy them "away" from the auction. Then Kill the Auction.
Mike |
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