How out of shape are you and how does it effect your sex life?
I just went out for an aggressive 10 mile ride, flats and hills, love my new bike. I work physically hard and am strong but found out pretty fast I have no aerobic fitness. Got home and found a text from a woman with whom I'm striking up a relationship and I immediately thought, "I would not want to have sex with me, it would not be great." I've definitely been getting by on the intellectual, emotional and imaginative sides of sex and am looking forward to rising to the occasion with the physical.
Do you find that sex is significantly better when you are in shape? Is it noticed? Appreciated? You may need to ask.