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Originally Posted by recycled sixtie
It's all good advice here on this thread. It reminds me of the joke "how do you stop a woman from making love?" Answer "you marry her".
When I meet a man that has been married three times I ask him if he understands women. The usual response is no.
My theory is this. It's a conspiracy theory on the part of the women. They use sex as a tool to attract the man(think of the venus fly trap) and keep him. They marry and the woman provides sufficient sex to stay married(or not). Larry King has been married six times. He stated that the last wife was no better than the wife before. He is a slow learner.
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I agree that there is a female culture in this continent that is anti-male or at least not conducive to normal male/female relationships. I am not saying any great conspiracy theory, but more that the underlying narrative that males (particularly white ones) are abusive at heart, that men and women are identical and therefore their roles ought to be identical and women "deserve" to get all the stereotypical benefits of being a woman plus all the cash they can grab due to their abused status.
It is not the same for other cultural groups. My g/f is Chinese, she harbours none of those illusions and readily accepts the fact that men and women are inherently different, with different roles and positions in society on a broad brush basis.
...and so do her many girlfriends....so it is a more broadly held point of view.
Personally, if I did not have her, I would not be pursuing any female companionship as the hassle is not worth the reward and the risk of entrapment is too high.
I would agree, to address your point, fitness does help if for no other reason that you have more energy and can more durably and continuously ..hmm...engage in the activity.
As for appearance, the other guys have it right...if the female brain likes you, your confidence, your humour and your attitude - all stuff which the g/f says is being a MAN, not a wimpy snowflake, then she will enjoy your shape, just so long as your belly diameter does not preclude provision of the full length of the object of her affection....
Dennis