[sammyg2]

At the risk of sticking my nose where it does not belong, I say it's none of your bees wax.

A will is supposed to be the wishes of the deceased. It was HER money, and she is telling everyone what she wants to be done with her money.
Unless there is some (real) evidence of mental illness or fraud, then the will should be executed exactly as dictated.
Getting all lawyered up can be construed as a character flaw IMO. I understand that there are times when it is necessary to defend yourself from other lawyers, but beyond that ......