[stomachmonkey]

Sorry for your loss.

Listen to your attorney.

Visit the bank and meet with the manager. Get them on your team.

Shut down lines of credit, you never know who has her card on file, like one of her Dr's, who will charge the card for a missed appointment, an appointment she missed because she died the morning of the appointment and the Dr's office manager insists you should have called right away to cancel as if that would have been the first thing on your mind had you even known about the appointment to begin with.

Get more than 3 death certificates, you'll end up using them. I got a dozen, still have a couple for the odd things that pop up years later.

Don't let creditors bully you into resolving things outside your timeframe / comfort zone. Threats of "it will hurt his credit rating" will be thrown around, simply respond, "he does not care, he's got bigger problems, he's dead".

Again, my condolences.