[RKDinOKC]

Found out a lot of family secrets after my Mom had a mild stroke. She said she wanted to set me straight before she forgot since she was hearing other people's stories and they were mostly fabricated to make themselves sound better. I've personally heard them tell stories of events where I was there as a little kid (and I have very good memory), and they are now definitely re-writing history so to speak.

So, from my experience, if you ask around, you are NOT going to get the truth anyway. You will just give other's the chance to support their fabrications.