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Originally Posted by brainz01
...I've been meaning to start a thread on parenting tips. As my kids are now 7 and 10, I'm trying to learn from those that have BTDT on how best to develop the next generation in this Brave New World we now live in.
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Thanks.
I can say without equivocation that parents presenting a united, agreed upon in advance position to their children is essential across the spectrum.
There was zippy playing mom versus dad. I will also say that my wife and I were willing to listen and if either my son or daughter had their schit together enough to change our minds on a rule or issue, we did.
We were benevolent rulers
Lastly, they will make mistakes; the only zero tolerance rule we had was lying about those mistakes or lying, frankly, in general. Being accountable is a gift that must be learned.
So much more. Remember, take pictures, take time for them, take them places and make them play a varsity sport in HS, an equivalent effort or play an instrument.
Thanks again - hot day, and I've rambled on!