[Zeke]

I'm missing something here. Some of your statements are clear as mud. Whatever.

Do you have to move to another school district within Wichita in order to enroll your oldest? If not, then what's the deal? Just do it. As others have stated, do for you, or if applicable, for your wife first.

And if leaving KS is gonna help you in the long and short run, giddy-up. If your oldest son has to try out for a completely new team in another state, I can't think of a better character builder than that. Of course he needs to succeed. Life's a b!tch.