Porschegal sort of asked already but what is your dream job/best possible career outcome in the near future? Does it exist in Wichita? You've sort of already indicated that it doesn't or is unlikely.
How big of a city would you need to move to for this job or is it only in very specific places? There is your answer, at least for your part of the equation. Personally, I think that there is a lot more opportunity for kids as well in a city but there are exceptions to everything, etc...
Good luck.
