[JavaBrewer]

What parents have to realize is that schools will generally submit to their wishes - you just have to push the right buttons to get the results. Our son has had his challenges and we have had to fight on all levels of the school system (County -> Teacher) to make sure he gets what he needs to succeed. So far we've have had success and are happy with his school and progress.

Beyond that it's the parent's responsibility to become involved and participate as much as possible - leading by example as it were. If you do not take an active role in your student's school experience then you are risking a great deal. With today's two working adult households its saddening to see so many kids dumped off at the curb while the parents race to get to work. A lot of parents in my son's first grade class have never sat and spoke to the teacher let alone meet or even know the name of the schools principal.

Zero tolerance is like the 3 strike law - a scape goat for real people making informed decisions.