[fast_e_man]

Agree with others, with 2 wheel drive + real snow tires (e.g. Blizzaks) you should be fine. There will be 6-10 days a year when the commute will be ugly because of snow. Most of the time you can work around that. The real issue is the other drivers, who frequently don't demonstrate competency on slippery roads. 4WD won't help much on evasive maneuvering so 2WD is fine to get around the city. Probably smart to carry a pair of chains just in case you swap ends and find a ditch.

Now I'm biased, but I think the weather is better on the western edge of the metro area. Not as much severe thunderstorms in the summer, although some may debate that. Morrison is up to 5 degrees cooler in the summer, and the cold air doesn't pool as much on winter nights. Lots of great recreation in the mountains, so having 4WD is really helpful for recreating.

I live west of the Hogback (6400') so we get considerably more snow than central Denver. If you are looking for easy access to the mountains move closer to the foothills, will cut 30 minutes or more off your trip each way.

Sorry to hear about the divorce. Been there -- better days are ahead, and a change of scenery may be refreshing.