[David]

Sounds like I need to just get over it.

I dress in jeans and a golf shirt at work so I only dress up for a nice dinner or the opera (wife drags me to them but I do like the occasional musical).

When we travel we make a point of going to a Michelin star restaurant and I’m often surprised at what our fellow diners are wearing. A couple years ago we were at one in Florence when this group of guys in jeans sat down next to us. After a minute they were escorted away. At first I thought maybe it was because they were underdressed. Then several minutes later they came back to the table with the chef, the manager, and the maitre d. Apparently I don’t know my soccer players. All evening people were coming over to say hi. The player closest to my wife leaned over after a while and politely apologized to us.