Kids are ok. Daughter has a new job, full time and more per hour. Son got laid off. My son still doesn't talk to her.
After the trial I felt like the world was lifted off of me, what a difference. She didn't do one thing to find a job in 2 years. She has a bachelors degree. During her lawyers closing arguments, her lawyer said she can never expect to make more than minimum wage while I would be living the good life. The judge stopped her lawyer and went off about how someone with a bachelors degree should make way more than that. The judge went on to ripped her a new one. They came into the trail asking for more alimony then I was currently paying and 65% of all assets. It was a big money grab. I'm really glad it failed. We could not agree on a value for the house since it is in need of many repairs. Currently, you could not get a conventional loan for the house, only a rehab or construction loan. So I will work on the house to get it to conventional loan status. We will split the coast of any hired help and all materials, my labor is free. Then sell it. I don't want it, it's too big for me and too many memories here.
how about this one? Sail on
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_9feYus8XmU