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Yep, my one rule is that I don't put up with BS like this.

When I was dating, behavior like this by a woman led to instant dumping by me. I wasn't going to put up with it and this is one of the behaviors that I didn't expect to change or be a single occurrence once it became apparent.

I've been with my wife for 20 years and never cheated on her. Now, she may tell me that I have to tell her where I am, but I am never forbidden from doing anything. The one and only time I have really put my foot down and told her not to do something was when she wanted to volunteer at a church in a bad neighborhood after work. There'd been a few shootings recently at the convenience store directly across the street and she would be there after dark twice a week. This had absolutely nothing to do with trust and had 100% to do with her safety.