[Zeke]

I'm not sure that's legal to throw your spouse's wares out the door w/o notice. Maybe she saw an attorney and got the go ahead but in CA she is liable for any loss due to her behavior. In order to actually remove him from living there, she needs a restraining order. Try for that after you've thrown out the clothes, etc. You will look for like the villain.

But for the phone, she's not in the best position. And texts are not proof. Evidence, yes. I'm not supporting the guy here, but come on.