first, if it is sexual, talk to me off line.
there is a spider on our front porch that has been there for a long time now.
it started off as we would mess up his web and he would rebuild it in the same area.
now it has turned into a fascination of watching him build it and catch food.
we have been trying to see how it gets it web strung from the edge of the roof down to one plant and over to another plant.
a few years ago there was one of those banana spiders by the garage door. we just left it because it was not in our way,. then it turned into watching him get bigger and bigger until he died.