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Originally Posted by rfuerst911sc
I can honestly say all 41 years have been good . Having said that the last 5 dealing with menopause has created its own version of a " polar vortex " if you know what I mean  But I take the vow " till death do us part " pretty seriously . |
If thats the case DO NOT give in
She needs a stable rock in those times.
She will test the hell out of that rock
feeling secure when she find a solid boundary
feeling insecure and crazy when she loses sight of the shore (lost in the desert...all those metaphors)
A well intentioned soft voice and firm NO
Call her on her bull****. Be the opposing voice to those unhappy women that she works with
During these times especially DO NOT show weakness in any form EVER
It will be the death of your marriage.
Do not react.
Its not about you