[svandamme]

I don't do well with people just for networking or socializing.
I can deal with people when I have a thing to do. Then there is purpose and that works.
Going to work , busy, lots of people fine, it has purpose

But just for sheer time wasting, visiting somebodies house?
I'll probably end up talking to their dog and he'll be my best friend for life.
No pets in their house, I'll feel awkward and gtfo.

People can come over to my house for BBQ in summer in the garden.
But i'll be relieved when the last one is gone again.

I like my quiet time at home, but need my kittiecats to keep me company.

The thought of actually getting in a relation and her eventually moving in is enough to not even bother with that.

It all sounds way to complicated.