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Originally Posted by Baz
There are some exceptions such as if you are young and want kids or if you come across a "unicorn" of a woman - but my 3 rules for survival are:
1. Never date a woman with children still living at home
2. Never get married - ever
3. Never let a woman move in with you
I know that makes me sound like a woman hater but really I'm not. Those 3 rules are as much to help her as it is to help him. Stay in your own homes and date. Even have sleep overs if you want. But the minute you start living under one roof....you are stuck.
Just my 2 cents.....
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My buddy is twice divorced. He practices the "Catch and release" method of dating. He never leads them on, he is up front, no marriage is going to happen. Date, have fun, remain friends. It is almost spooky how many ex-girlfriends he has that will still call him for advice on buying a car, fix a leaking faucet, or help with a car mechanic.
He is just over 50, reasonably fix, (no gut) and owns a nice house, and very smart. He says women at that age are like picking out what donut to get. Have a bite or two, and move on to the next one.
He says when he finds a solid 10, that is not bat chit crazy, has no young kids, likes to travel, is good in bed, and is a multimillionaire he might settle down. But unicorns are hard to find.
I am so dang lucky. Married 27 years and she is 100% sane. No petty BS at all.