[rattlsnak]

In a new relationship, I've learned to be myself right out of the gate. Don't act/pretend to be someone you're not and do things that you normally wouldn't do etc.. Sooner or later you will fall back to yourself and then the fights start. (you always used to lower the seat, open my car door, go to love story movies with me, etc..) As Jim mentioned, women tend to have hormonal issues every so often and after a certain amount of time in the avoidance stage, sooner or later it's going to come to a head. You both get help, or you split. Life is WAY to short to be that unhappy/miserable.