[fintstone]

Not sharing a series of phone calls/texts from a woman that has made it clear that she wants to have an extramarital affair with you does not exactly sound like "walking on eggshells". It sounds like a strategic decision based on knowing/predicting the emotional response from the spouse. If nothing has or will happen...why upset the spouse and create a feud between families?

For those of you with extremely hot spouses, they are flirted with/hit on every day. If they told you about every one, your days would be filled with ass-kicking and hospital recovery time...if not jail. You should trust your spouse to handle such crap without involving you and vice-versa.