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Originally Posted by Tervuren
Fintstone has a point.
But I'd also much rather be comfortable with talking about anything that happens to me if I wanted to do so.
My personal observation of my small part of the world is that women have difficulty separating animosity of imagined events from actual.
A women can dream you did a terrible thing and have animosity towards you even if you didn't do it.
I see Fred's point in that the more material there is for imagination the worse things can go.
I have also observed that women will hold the sin's of a past partner against the present partner.
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A now passed woman friend of mine thought something happened and my comment was do you want me to lie to you to let you think it happened that way. The woman behind us in line just smiled. Actually that did make it go away.
I do not strategize anything nor try and manipulate anything. However it just seems to usually work out my way.. So many times on this Board I have wanted to make a comment but it just did not seem to be the right time and place. As posts and or Threads took place it just seems to always work out that that right time and place to make my comment just occurs.. Do I set the stage for it to work out that way, or am I anticipating the course of events? Anyway you wana slice it is a touchy feely intuitive process.
What I realize is that the long and arduous road of examining ones life that I set out on when I was 20 has paid off. The facts of life are that if you started now it would take you decades to get to where I am at. It is called neural plasticity and it takes time, effort and an unrelenting willingness to look closely at yourself in the mirror. It is the difference between an apprentice and a master craftsman. The Newbie don't know shyte. It is not a matter of ego either, it is just the way things are.