I feel for everyone who has been touched by an event such as this.
Hopefully this video can be shared in a way that it gets in front of at least one person who it can help. What happens after cannot be fixed. But maybe, just maybe in at least one case it can be prevented by the person themselves by watching this.
I don't believe that others should carry the guilt of not having prevented it or seeing the signs.
Its not your fault. Given out ability to hide things, you did the best you could do not knowing, and you couldn't have know.
The biggest message I think in this video is that our lives are not ours to take. Our lives belong to those in our lives.
Take care
Be kind to yourself
https://youtu.be/qmKtyeQ9Ikk