very predictable responses.
Notice he is talking about women who got knocked up and had kids but did not get married. That demonstrates poor decision making, poor character, and irresponsibility.
Excuses are the norm for "some".
Shame on him!
Personal accountability is bad, expecting it is unreasonable and cruel.
bah
My father gave me some advice a long time ago (in so many words): be careful, your decisions have consequences. Do not get a girl pregnant out of wedlock, it will screw up your life and hers.
Don't hook up with a girl who has already screwed up her life, her mistakes will become yours.
Don't marry a woman who has been divorced, and don't marry a woman who's parents are divorced. If you do, she'll bail as soon as thing get rocky.
If you find a decent girl who' parents have stuck it out and made it work, it's likely she will too.
He was right, and I listened to him.
I married a good woman who had never been married and didn't have kids, and who's parents are still together.
I've been married once, over 27 years do far.
My three brothers listened too, and they've all been married longer than I have.
Four sons, no divorces, no bastard kids.
Interestingly, my father married a divorced woman with two kids and made it work (58 years until his death), but the sacrifices he had to make were impressive to say the least. A lesser man would not have pulled that off.
So he knew what he was talking about.
BTW, IMO the a-holes who get girls knocked up and walk away without even trying to be decent fathers should have their nuts cut off with a dull hack saw. A little at a time.
