[JonT]

I have a younger brother in his late 30's that's married to a bipolar/manic wife with MAJOR father issues. Traumatic childhood--her sister died in a car crash then her father left the family. She can't hold a job, slept with some other guy, my brothers not attracted to her she's massively overweight, they don't have sex, she's been violent towards him (hitting him on several occasions, the dog is afraid of her, she's lost over $20k of their savings trying to build a business-it failed, she cant have kids, I can go on.

Recently he moved out to stay with our parents saying he was going to end things. Well he's going back to her. In his mind he hasn't done enough to help her to get her meds/therapy figured out. WTF!!?? Why do people choose absolute misery!!??