If I've learned one thing hanging out with a bunch of divorced people for a few years, it's that everyone takes their own path to recovery. None are right or wrong, better or worse. As long as you're making progress, eventually you'll put it all behind you and move on. Looks like you're doing great, Wayne!
Me? I'm still with the same woman. We went to China together this year and had a blast. I still own my house, but mostly live with her. Navigating the little details of adult relationships... like dealing with two houses, is interesting for sure.
I still resist posting details about my relationships, but will say things are very, very good!

She's an amazing woman and I feel so fortunate to have her in my life.