[asphaltgambler]

Hence the importance of putting it in writing. Even if there is very little money or property if nothing's in black and white it will just lead to fighting, theft and hard feelings amongst the family. My wife and I have separate ones in case one passes before the other, then 1 together if we pass at the same time.

We both have in the first paragraph that any heir or potential heir that contests the documents will automatically forfeit any right or interest they may have. That way keeps it simple, no arguing, no attorneys.