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Been there. Done that. It is an impossible situation. It is like trying to reason with a 6 year old.
For some reason mom thought my two sisters were trying to steal the money but trusted me. We had a long time lawyer family friend who would bend the rules and draw up papers (power of attorney, etc) and I would slap them in front of mom and dad and they would sign them. Attorney would notorize them after the fact.
I had to start spending the night at their house because mom would wake up and leave the house in the middle of the night. I would sleep on the floor in front of her bedroom door. One night she spotted me on the floor and started yelling "CALL 911. CALL 911" and proceded to beat and claw the living crap out of me. They both ended up in nursing homes after that night. Mom lasted about 3 months. Dad hung on for about 6 years of hell.
I somehow can look back at it now and chuckle to myself at some of the chit they pulled.
Best of luck.
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