[Chocaholic]

Will keep the background brief.

My mom passed away recently and left my 90 year old dad with their prized possession, a 12 year old 12 lb Havanese dog that is as meek and gentle as an animal can be. Teddy is my dads only full time companion and he loves that dog.

But, he is having a hard time taking care of Teddy. He is moving in with my niece in August. She just bought a house and is excited about having him. Here’s the dilemma. She has a 16 year old 20 lb cat that she believes would tear Teddy apart. She loves the cat and would welcome Teddy if she weren’t sure her cat would be aggressive.

I’ve offered to take Teddy but I live 800 miles away and can’t bear to separate him from dad. Is it possible to manage this kind of introduction between two old animals? Should we consult/hire a trainer? Or just give up and take Teddy from dad. Once the cat dies (he’s 16, but healthy) I would bring Teddy back....but dad would be heartbroken in the mean time. And honestly, not sure how much time dad has left.

He recently lost his wife of 64 years. He needs Teddy emotionally. Appreciate suggestions or similar experiences.