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i was talking t my wife. i have decided if i should pass away, i don't want a funeral. it's partially about the money. seems like such a racket to me; the funeral business.

but in all seriousness, i simply don't want one. cremate me, toss my ashes somewhere (legal) and beautiful. maybe send out a notification that i am no longer among us and everyone else moves on with their lives. everyone wearing black, acting sad. no thanks.

zero fanfare.

people tell me that a funeral is for "closure" for those left behind. its for them. i've been to a bunch of them, i am not sure that is the case.

thoughts?