That is sad. My buddy just passed at 96. No service. As did my favorite Uncle. I feel a loss that a service would help.
When another Uncle passed years ago, I got to tell my most bestest story. It involved old sweaty dynamite and flying body parts. Laughter is part of grief. It is a release.
Me? I would very much like to have a second line parade. Of course, I will not be there to enjoy it.
https://www.frenchquarter.com/secondline/
To each their own I guess. That is what makes us great. And FYI Gents? Cheers to you now! While you are still topside..