[juanbenae]

tabs never been through the cat thing (have my 1st cat now, 5 years) but my dog of 13 years was starting to go south last year. he was having hip problems and i probally could have nursed him along for another six or eight months. my guilt seems to be the opposite of yours in that did i pull the trigger too soon? there is no right answer when our loved ones are involved in a situation like that. it was by far the hardest day and decision of my life thus far. i have a box with his ashes, his colar and his stainless bowl in my living room so i think of him often. dartis a better dog even dead, than my new one is alive.

speaking of loved ones,, with the holidays over it really makes you appreciate you pets alot more.