my wife and her brother get along famously. its a good thing.
they visit each other all the time (more on this below). her only sibling. a younger brother.
here is the thing. we ALWAYS go and visit them. BIL and his SO. they NEVER come to visit us. if they do "come to visit" us we meet somewhere halfway. we will however, go to visit them in their neighborhood, or some restaurant down the street from their condo. i dont remember them ever visiting us except once. and the entire time, they complained that the drive was so long.
i tried to create/adopt a rule that whomever (whoever?)is hosting the visit pays..but that didn't fly with the wife. so now, i have to load up car, gas up..drive 2-hours to visit and i get to pay!! now Sunday, we go to visit. BIL is ordering togo. we pick it up on our way in. i got stuck with the bill AGAIN. hahhahaa..
hahhahaaahhaha.. FACK. personally, i am happy me and my siblings are scattered around the country. i chit you not..i dont know what type of car his SO drives!! i have never seen it. they just dont commute.
sorry, i am in a grouchy mood. some micro-managering idiot above me directed the Contractor to work Sundays...now i have to staff the entire weekend. great..at least the OT will cover this weekends food tab.