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Originally Posted by rockaria
Dude, at least she was communicating, helping and brought you the clamp. You are the luckiest guy on the planet my friend. All I ever got was silence and abuse. She demanded things and disappeared. Never lifted a finger to help with anything. I wish my wife (Now ex-wife) was ever there for me and willing to help.
Just saying...
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I agree with this. It's just a tool as she said.
Some of the most enjoyable experiences with the ex were those we did together until she changed.
Leaving paint on it was wrong but your entire relationship is infinitely more important.
As men, we have the strong
"leave me alone and let me finish my work, dang it" instinct. Its strong.
It's there because we have all had a lifetime of being yelled at while at the top of the ladder.
It's there because plans have been changed twenty times until they return to the original plan.
It's there because our efforts have been marginalized and taken for granted.
Women have the strong instinct to walk into the middle of construction zones and start demanding everything be put on hold until they can be in charge.
But they also have the instinct to be good workers and capable of doing the job better and faster in some situations.
Hey think of it this way: If we had the patience, and gift of gab, we could convince them to do it and sit back to watch them do all work without lifting a finger.
