[Tervuren]

At fourteen I knew everything.
At fifteen I realized I didn't.
At sixteen I filled in the gaps, and knew everything again.

I've had this repeat a few times, to know, nope, not every gonna know everything.

Are your expectations for your daughter the same as if she had been your son?
Because for a female, there are succesful life options beyond employed workplace career.
if the skills are there to raise kids, care for yard, garden, farm, kitchen, home, etc, pursueing those over school is not a bad life path.