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Originally Posted by rfuerst911sc
Too much " me " and not enough " us " mindset . It seems like simple manners have died. A simple example I was taught to open/hold a door open for anyone behind you . I am amazed at how many individuals won't say a simple thank you . It doesn't stop me from doing it but it's something I notice .
Car turn signals: they are not optional every car/truck has them . Take these simple examples and start casting them outward and you will see the issues get bigger with more impact . I am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason and runs in cycles . I do believe we will get back on track as a nation , but we will need REAL leaders to assist in that . Not talking political leaders as that's a lost cause , I am talking family and community leaders . Grassroots leaders .
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Originally Posted by rfuerst911sc
I am not a religious person never have been . I have no issues with anyone if they are or aren't . But in my opinion religion is only a small piece of if a person is " good " or not . If you were raised right with some boundaries/discipline/guidance/encouragement you have a fighting chance of being a positive member of society .
But being raised right just plants the seed , as an individual you have to keep at it on a daily basis . Even though my parents are long gone ( RIP ) I ask myself all the time what would my parents think of my behavior or decisions . In a small way it helps keep me on a good path .
Our society is quick to blame others but usually it's the person in the mirror that is responsible for the issue . Not always but many times . Just my 2 cents keep the change ��
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Both of your posts are "spot on", Rick.
And FWIW.....I'm just posting my opinions here. If someone disagrees or has a different take - that's OK.
(I say that as a tribute to my parents who raised me to respect the viewpoint of others).
But having an opinion on the way our culture is in decline shouldn't be considered a personal attack on anyone. It's just commentary by someone looking at the big picture and giving his take.
I'd think maybe a good topic for discussion here -
as long as everyone keeps their "micro-aggressions" in check! 
And FWIW.......for me as a 67 year old....I think some of this really started in the 60's. It's not a "damn hippie" thing. It's a lot larger. Stuff like adults getting too lazy to put in the work raising the kids proper. Or too self-centered. The concept in society that we just let everything go and be free. When in reality it's the furthest thing from being free possible. Enter the age of the cell phone and Internet. Putting people in jail. They aren't free. They're stuck.
I'm not saying the world is coming to an end or anything. It's just filled with too many selfish lazy adults.
The kids are the ones who need the help. At that young age - they are open books with unwritten chapters....waiting for us adults to help guide them as they write the novels of their lives.