[asphaltgambler]

^^^ I've been down the friend advice road with that exact situation and the result was exactly the same. She got wind of it, told him I was just jealous, they both quit speaking to me. They ended up divorced, haven't seen either of them all these years later, but I was not really close to him.

Which is why I asked Bill when they (she) wanted to move to nowhere; West-by-God Va, was he sure? I said it's tough starting a business, especially in an area with no major income influence like, manufacturing, state government, etc. I never mentioned her