I have two older brothers. One only 11 months my senior. He lives in South Florida and the oldest in Virginia. They are both married - me single.
I'm 67 so we are all "getting up" in age.
I had an idea that we 3 brothers get together for a camping trip at some point to re-connect in person - just us guys.
Heck - all 3 of us were scouts for many years - we know the drill.
My oldest brother (who in my opinion gave up his man card many years ago) said he wasn't going anywhere without his wife.
Well that shot that idea down.
In a perfect world SHE would tell him to go and she'll see him when he gets back......that's what a real companion would do, IMHO.
Glad you enjoyed your get together, Hugh....good job!