[stomachmonkey]

General conversations about this stuff is also important.

My father died the same day as my wife's grandmother and it was my daughters 7th birthday that coming weekend so there was a bit of urgency to get everyone in the ground and put on happy faces by the end of the week.

My father had always kept his dress blues in a cedar closet like he was preserving a priceless antique.

We found out after it was too late, he wanted to be buried in them.

So now I have them and don't know what to do with them other than look at them and feel guilt.