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Hi Billy, my thoughts are with you, this is a very difficult decision, you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. I don't think there is a correct answer.
I think if it were me and I say that because if put in the decision I may react differently, I would let him do his thing. I think it is much like dealing with an alcoholic or drug addict. You can help and be supportive, but you can't make them change, only they can change themselves.
Your true obligations and commitment are to your family. It is clear you are willing to do what is necessary to help your father but if he isn't willing to help himself and in fact pushing you away, then it isn't fair for your family to suffer.
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