[fastfredracing]

Billy, I am sorry you are going through this. It is maddening, This is my wife to a T. She just had a heart attack and a stroke because of her non action to take care of her health issues, and now that she is recovering , she refuses to make any of the right choices .
The only time she will take any of her meds, is when I force them on her, and the only time she will eat healthy food is when I prepare it and force the issue. Even then, she will have a light portion, and then shove cookies in her face after the meal
I have come to accept the fact that my wife will not be with me for long, and there is really nothing I can do about it.
I beg, plead, and try to talk with her daily , I ask her to try to imagine her 5 year old son being raised without her .
It must run in the family, her father went out the same way .
I cannot commit her and no one can force her to live right, She chooses ice cream, cookies, pasta, and sweet tea , over her life, and her families well being. It is what it is