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Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: South of the Mason-Dixon Line
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The only way to deal with a bully is to put a hurt on them and thats from my experience in High School. I was pushed around by this guy much taller then me in gym class (freshman). It was the classic Marty McFly Biff encounter. He elbowed me during basketball games, pushed,. shoved, and verbally abused me for weeks. When I got home, I told my parents and my father simply said, "son your a man to face your problems, but a bigger man to overcome them". With that one day I just grew a set of balls, walked up to him during a game, made a fist and like Marty McFly sent him to the floor with a very bloody nose. That finally shut him up and he left me alone and never picked on anyone else that I was aware of. BTW, yes, I had to go to the Principal's office for a long and loud chewing out!
So yes, it's in your DNA to "fight or flight" as a survival instinct. GOOD always over comes EVIL.
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