[jcommin]

I have been divorced since 2010 and had no thought of ever dating again. My divorce was expensive and there were other life factors that piled on during that time. I was financially crippled and my focus was on getting financially, emotionally and mentality healthy. I had no interest in dating until about 2 years ago. I met a work colleague who I befriended. She help me thru some issues I had with my ex-wife regarding college bills with my youngest son. I wrestled with asking her out - but I got the courage and we have been dating ever since. Looking back, I guess I was ready to step out again,

It has been great - I enjoy her company and we have support for both families which is important. We have grown kids and are grandparents. The hardest part for me was just taking the step to having a friendship and relationship.

You will know when your ready......... All the best.