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Originally Posted by GH85Carrera
I miss dating almost as I miss skin cancer, or colonoscopy preparation. I still check out petty ladies, but I don't even run to the end of my chain to bark and sniff, I just admire the view from a distance.
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see, i love dating. i love meeting new people, figuring out how they work and why. dipping myself into new hobbies, different interests, that i never would have bumped into otherwise. love dating so much i keep doing it even when i'm dating other people.
as soon as you disconnect dating, from the pressure to pick a person to live forever with, or have kids, or whatever, dating becomes a super fun and interesting hobby. or the time one, everyone who gets pissed about dating in my experience is on some kind of time table, have to be at X by Y age etc. and it just sets them up for failure IMO.
have fun. meet people. do strange things you've never done before. be interesting.
but you know, im pretty intellectually promiscuous as well as you know, just actually promiscuous according to most of the population. enm and polyamory are not super well accepted.