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Originally Posted by Baz

I have remained on good standing with all my past girlfriends.

I think that's a positive.

Sometimes things just don't work out for a long term deal. No need to go crazy.

Have fun while you can - enjoy the moment(s)!

I have so many fond memories of so many moments with these ladies.

One I dated in the 80's had an MGB and was a blast to be with. We were having dinner once at a local seafood restaurant and she said to me "You know what bad habit you have?" I was thinking - oh no - what is she seeing I don't know about?!? She said "You lick your fingers." That was funny - and true. I never did it again - except maybe a little in the privacy of my home.

But that's what it's all about. Honesty with each other about all kinds of little things that contribute to growth and wonderment.

I won't be with anyone I don't respect. That's a big cornerstone.

Based on years of seeing your posts regarding women, relationships, and dating, I think you have a good, healthy outlook and method. It's not everyone's thing to get in and stay in a long term or to be a perpetual bachelor. I'm sure there are also degrees of everything in between. One solution does not fit all. You seem to do what you do well (in a way that's a win-win which is key).