We do have 2 dogs, although Grace could be mistaken for a sloth or some hairy form of vegetation. She would never be an alpha. Maybe with time Owen perk up. Vicki thinks he is in mourning. This morning we got out Maddie's old toys and he learned to jump through the hoop and over the hurdle. I'm working with him, but it's not the same.
Here is a picture of Owen and Grace in better times, doing what they do best.
Thank you for letting me go on and on about this. I do so appreciate the kind words.